On Growth...

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Personal growth never was, nor will be a peaceful or glamorous experience. It doesn't come when you're "ready" or at a time that's convenient for you.

It hits hard, in the most unexpected places, at the most unexpected times. It turns you inside out, leaving you gutted and raw, gasping for breath like a fish out of water. And the more you fight it, the more drenched you are in existential anguish, desperately searching for an end but only prolonging the inevitable. The only way out, is to surrender to it and learn the lessons.

"Life is a storm, my friend. You will bask in the sunlight one moment, be shattered on the rocks the next. What makes you a man is what you do when that storm comes." ~ 
Alexandre Dumas, The Count of Monte Cristo

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  1. Blue GrumpsterNovember 9, 2019 at 2:49 PM

    "And the more you fight it, the more drenched you are in existential anguish, desperately searching for an end but only prolonging the inevitable." You're back 100%!

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